10 Years

Again, the day came and the day went.  But it was 10 years this year.  I can’t believe it’s been 10 years.  And then, I can believe it.  So much has changed.  I spent a few minutes during the week last week watching the specials and weeping, thinking about my little family, and hoping we never have to experience loss.  But my husband can’t take watching that stuff, and I don’t know why I do it to myself, so I didn’t see much coverage this year.  10 years ago I was in my last semester of college at the University of Florida.  I didn’t have classes on Tuesday and Thursday, so I was home.  We lived next door to G & G that year, and I watched part of it with each of them.  And this year, they were on the move back from NH to NC, and stopped to stay with us along the way for a night.  So, ten years later, we were together again.  We opted to go out to breakfast instead of watching the coverage on TV.  I know M isn’t old enough to remember, but I just don’t know if I want her seeing that stuff.  It’s just too much.

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Custom Board Book

A few years ago when we went to visit our nieces in FL we were so impressed that our 2-year old niece really seemed to know who we were, even though we hadn’t seen her in months, maybe longer.  So while I was pregnant with Miss M, we knew we wanted a way to teach her about her family that she may only see a few times a year.  Somehow I got the idea to make a custom board book.  I did a lot of searching online and found several options for self publishing, but really only one for making a custom board book.  I can’t remember exactly how much it cost, but I think it was around $30. Miss M just loves pointing to everyone in the book and having us tell her who is who.  It will be so fun once she starts talking more and telling us who is who!

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Vintage Toy circa 1981?

My father made this for me when I was a kid.  Not sure where he got the idea.  My parents brought it when they drove up this summer, thinking that M would be interested in a few months, but it’s now one of her favorite toys.  She can entertain herself while I make dinner, opening the door, taking a toy out, closing the door, opening the door, putting the toy in . . . and so on . . . over and over.  She has the eye hook down and can hook and unhook it, which is unfortunate, since that’s how we keep her confined to the house and out of the backyard, where she loves to swing! (We also have one up high, don’t you worry!)

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1 Year Photos

On the day before her first birthday, we had some professional photos taken of Miss M by a friend and co-worker of mine.  She has more creativity in her little finger than I’ll have in three lifetimes! (Check out her blog!)  I didn’t think to take pics when Miss M turned 13 months old last week (I blame the hurricane!), so I am posting her 1 year pics now.  I’ll have to decide how often I will do the block pictures, and when she’s too old for them!


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First Steps

M’s Grandma Jane came to visit this weekend, so M decided to pull out all the stops.  She took her first steps!  We were all playing around on the bed and she was practicing her standing and falling down on Daddy.  Then all of a sudden, she took three steps!  So, we played “walking” all weekend.  And by Labor Day, she was crawling into my lap, taking my two hands and having me send her on her way.  She isn’t interested in walking unless there is someone to walk too, and you have to be about two feet away from each other, but it’s still so cool to watch.  She’s also standing alone and looking very proud.  And she’s been able to do from sitting alone in the middle of the floor to standing up.  She’s such a big girl.

PS – Her hair is laying down, for the most part.  Her favorite toys are the lion walking toy and the wooden box with all the latches that my dad made for me when I was little.  She also loves putting the stackable rings on her arms like bracelets.

PPS – Tooth update: She’s been crabby, clingy and skipping naps all over the place so we anticipated a molar and yesterday we noticed that tooth #9 has made an appearance.  She has the front four on the top and bottom already, and the new one is on the top on her left, about two teeth back from the ones she already has.   Not sure it that’s a molar or not, and it’s hard to really get in there to tell.

All the new stuff is coming so fast . . . it’s exciting and it’s sad.

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Holding on to Summer

I’m yearning for Fall and Miss M is holding on tight to Summer.  But, I think it’s official, because I purchased some Sam Adams Octoberfest today.

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Hurricane Irene

Our power went out at about 7:30am on Sunday, August 28th as Hurricane Irene rolled through New England.  For us, she wasn’t much more than a bunch of rain and some wind.  We did a good amount of preparation in the yard, bringing in things that could blow around and be damaged or cause damage.  We worried a bit about going through a hurricane with a baby in a house with no real interior doors.  I have memories of some nights sleeping on the floor of our kitchen in Florida, away from the windows, even though we had shutters on all the windows.  We got plenty of non-perishable food and water, toddler formula instead of milk, and got the flashlights, propane stove and battery powered radio down from the camping gear in the attic.  I got cash in case of total lack of power.  We hunkered down.  Irene didn’t do much on our street except uproot one tree and take down some limbs and our power before the storm had hardly even started.  We felt cut off all day, unable to see where the storm made landfall and how NYC fared against mother nature and flooding.  Although the phone and internet held out for a few hours after the power went out, we eventually grew to miss Facebook, weather.com and calling home to Florida for updates from TV.  We hung out with some neighbors we’ve known for years, got to know a few new neighbors a little better, and met some new to us neighbors as we all surveyed the damage – which was quite minimal.  One of our neighbors brought us dinner and we settled in as the sun went down.  After dusk, my boredom turned into excitement as life felt more like an adventure, moving from room to room with whatever small light source we had.  I really liked living by the flicker of candlelight.  What a pleasure to complete all my chores before dark and just relax.  I didn’t miss my precious technology as soon as the sun went down.  I think the whole neighborhood went to bed early, because all you could hear was nature, peaceful and quiet, mixed in with the hum of a generator about six houses down the street.

Last night we went out to dinner to celebrate a good friend’s birthday and when we came home the power was back on.  Is it bad that I was disappointed?  Is it bad that I longed for another night off the grid?  I miss the simplicity of the darkness.  I miss the wholesomeness of the quiet.  Maybe I can take something from this situation.  Maybe I can try to disconnect from technology in the evenings, spend a little less time checking email and Facebook, spend a little more time reading and writing.

(I can say all this because our power was only off for 36 hours. It did not affect our ability to get running water.  I only showered once in that time, and I was lucky enough to get the leftover warm water in the hot water heater.  We did, however, decide to throw away all of our food, especially meat that had begun to defrost, instead of risk getting food poisoning).

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Keeping in Touch

My parents insisted we download Skype when M was born.  We skyped with them a few times and M didn’t really seem to notice what was going on.  Well, that’s all changed.  We had a nearly half hour video call with my parents and she pointed, smiled, waved, tried to hand off her toys, reacted verbally, and nearly jumped up and down.  It was a lot of fun.  Even Izzie got in on the action.

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Izzie Update

Izzie had her two year checkup on Friday.  We were pleasantly surprised to learn that the bonding on her teeth has held up. (She has no enamel on her teeth naturally.)  The sealants were first put on two years ago and had to be nearly completely redone last year.  Since last year, we’ve taken away the tennis ball and the racquet ball, so now she’s only allowed soft plush toys.  This seems to have done the trick!  However, she did have two teeth they flagged last year to watch for this year, as well as three additional problem teeth this year. Instead of performing root canals, they removed the five problem teeth.  We only got a brief look as she was yawning, but her chart tells me that they removed one of the front top teeth and four of the bottom front teeth.  She had already had her canines and most of the teeth around them removed, so besides a couple of molars on each side she only has one tooth left visible on the bottom.  Poor puppy!  She’ll be taking probiotics, antibiotics and pain pills for 2 weeks, wearing the satellite dish collar for 3 weeks, eating wet dog food and chicken broth blended until smooth for 4 weeks and then eating dry dog food soaked in water for an additional 60 days.  She was pretty out of it her first night home, but other than being tired from the pain pills, she’s doing just fine!  She is such a trooper, such a wonderful dog.  And surprisingly enough we aren’t having any issues with M and the dog’s huge satellite dish collar.  Izzie has only bumped her with it once, and she was so gentle.  We’re probably lucky M isn’t walking yet or she’d be getting knocked over like crazy!

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First Artwork

Now that Miss M is in the pre-toddler room, she has all sorts of new adventures.  They create artwork, they play outside twice a day, they splash around with the water table and more!  Dare I say it – she’s been sleeping through the night again consistently since late June (she took about a month off from about a week before memorial day until my parents arrived the last week in June).  I’m hoping it’s just her age, but she is throwing some serious fits.  Oops – I think she might have gotten my temper.  She prefers to be held as much as possible and really likes to sit in your lap.  Oh, but by “you” I mean me, or Daddy.  She’s got some stranger phobia going on.  She’s getting better at the drop off at daycare, so that’s good!  We usually start getting her ready for bed around 7:30pm.  She gets a bath, brushes her teeth, brushes her hair, puts he PJs on, kisses Lily, drinks a bottle and she’s off to bed.  She gets up around 6:30 – 6:45am most mornings.  I’m just trying to document all this kind of stuff, because it’s just flying by.  Someone asked me about something today, and I couldn’t even remember and it’s only been a little over a year.   Time is flying by.

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