Two Months Old

3-25-13 S 2 Months

2 months old!
22.5 inches long (50th percentile)
10 pounds (45th percentile)

S is already two months old!  She’s very alert and loves looking around.  She’s still a pretty easy baby.  She does her share of crying, mostly when she’s been put down in the swing or bouncy seat instead of being held. Her hardest times seem to be in the morning when I am trying to get M ready for school, although it’s working well to wear her in the Moby Wrap, and in the evenings when we’re eating dinner or getting ready to start bath time.  She gets a bath every night with M. M is in the big tub and S is in the little tub. We’ve just taken out the infant sling this week.  We usually start bath time by 6:30pm and then I nurse her and put her to bed while R puts M to bed. She’s usually asleep by 7:30 or 8. I wish I could say the same for M, who seems to enjoy singing in her room for quite a while before falling asleep these days.  S has had a few really great stretches of sleep. On my birthday, also her 8 week birthday, she slept from 8:30pm – 5am! She’s also done some stretches until 3 or 4 am. However, last night she was up five times (she’s got some wicked gas)! Hopefully she’ll start trending more towards the 5am hour soon. But I really can’t complain, because when she gets up at night, I feed her and she pretty much goes right back to sleep. She is in no way up screaming and upset like her sister was.  Poor M will have to hear stories about how S was an easier baby. I blame the feeding issues and the reflux for M’s colic. S has neither of those working against her. She took a bottle every day this week while her Grandma Jane was visiting. She’s still adjusting, but did well overall with the bottles. As of now I am just pumping one side once a day (while I nurse her on the other side), usually in the morning.  I am pumping just enough for the bottle for the day, but saved up some milk last week. I could pump more often to build up a supply, but I am nervous about over pumping and causing engorgement, as this was an issue with M. I am really flying by the seat of my pants, but it seems to be working out just fine.

Here’s M at 2 months old. Fun to look back at her as such a small baby.

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M-isms

3-23-13 M w Fruit

Really want to capture some of the hilarious things M is saying these days.

Daddy: Hey M, don’t . . .
M: Don’t say Hey, Hay is for Horses!

– She refers to my chest as “S’s food”
– EVERY TIME I pour her milk:
M: Is this coconut mlk?
Me: No, it’s regular milk.
M: Oh, cause it smells like coconut milk.

Why is S crying?
Why is S happy?

S, you’re wakin’ me up (even when she’s sitting in her chair eating and not even near nap or bedtime)

What’s this one about? (She asks about each song on the radio, when she’s not insisting we listen to only Steve Songs)

She’s also excited that she knows how to do “yoga” – here are a few photos (I totally posed her like this, she doesn’t really do yoga regularly!)

3-20-13 Cow's Face Pose 3-20-13 Yoga Girl

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Thank you AGAIN Great Great Aunt Jackie

When M was born, my Great Aunt Jackie knitted her a beautiful blanket and hat. And she was kind enough to do the same for S. How beautiful is this? Thank you Great Great Aunt Jackie – Love, S.

3-9-13 S w Blanket from Jackie

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Gamma Visit

M used to call my parents GeeMa and GeePa.  Now they are Gamma and Gampa. We were very happy to have them visit last week during my mom’s spring break and to help them get their rental house (wahoo!) set up a little bit. M loved having both of them around and S spent a lot of time snoozing in Gamma’s lap! I enjoyed getting some nice naps, some time with my mom and dad and getting some chores done.

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2.5 year and 1 week old photoshoot

Back in early February we had some beautiful professional photos taken of the girls and I don’t think I’ve even posted them yet?! I was kind of waiting to show them to family first before putting them up here. As always, we hoped for at least ONE good photo and we were super excited to get some many great photos that it was hard to choose.  Thank you to our photographer! In these photos M is 2.5 years old and S is just a week old!

2-1-13 M and S Prof Pic 2-1-13 S birth announcement photo 2-1-13 M 2.5 year prof pic

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First Smiles

And the first real smiles go to . . . M!  She got about five smiles in a row yesterday (S at 6 week old). We’ve yet to be able to duplicate the smiles, but it sure was cool to watch and M was really excited! I hope they’ll always be best friends.

(Adorable color coordinated outfits courtesy of their great Aunt Beth – thanks!)

3-10-13 M and S

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1 Month

IMG_40251 month old!
21 inches long (50th percentile)
8 pounds, 10 ounces (30th percentile)

It’s really hard to get a good photo of a baby who can’t sit up or even hold their own head up. She’s got a wicked case of baby acne here, but we know that will clear up soon. She’s doing a great job knowing the difference between day and night, but she’s always been good with that. These days we’re giving her a bath with M at about 6:30pm and she’s usually asleep by 8pm swaddled in her crib. Some nights she gets up before I go to bed to nurse again (but even that is starting to stop), and some nights she sleeps until 12 or 1 and then doesn’t get up again until 5 or so! Last night was an amazing night.  Horrible evening of the little one screaming through bath and bedtime of the big one (R was working late for the third night), but the night was great! She went to bed by 8pm and didn’t get up until 2:30am. That’s six and a half hours of sleep for her! I didn’t go to bed until 10pm of course. Then she was up again at 6:00am, but went back to sleep a little after eating – long enough that I was able to take a shower while both girls slept.  I count that as only getting up once during the night. So it’s usually once or twice during the night and is trending towards being just once! Usually for the 5am or so feeding she’s then up for the morning, going back to sleep in the car on the way to drop M off at school around 7:45am.  She sleeps quite a lot during the day, with at least one of those times being a significant nap swaddled in her crib.  But she’s also starting to be a lot more alert when she is awake. She’s a great baby!

Side note:
At an appointment 2 weeks ago they found blood in her stool, so advised me to cut dairy out of my diet. It’s been two weeks and there is just a tiny little bit of blood detected in her stool, so they advised me to stay off the dairy.

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Baby Acne

Good thing this is my second kid and I know that baby acne is just a phase. S has got a serious case! I hope this doesn’t mean she’ll have tough teenage years.

photo-1R is working late a bunch this week and I’ve been pretty successful getting the girls in bed by myself – I’m just a little bit proud of myself.

 

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Reading

M love love loves to read. R will actually sneak in some of his own reading time by asking her to get a stack of books, bring them out on the couch and “read” with him.  This means he reads his book to himself and she reads hers out loud. I promise we do read to her as well! This weekend M decided she wanted to read her books to S. Overall, she’s doing a great job being a big sister, but I know it’s been tough on her. Just yesterday she told me she didn’t want to have to share her mom and dad with S. She’s doing a much better job being gentle with S and often says that we have to be gentle because she’s very small and fragile. The time leading up to bedtime is hard. She wants me to do things for her, but usually I am the one bathing S and I’m always the one feeding S. She asks to be picked up a lot more than she used to and yesterday in the tub she started crying the way a newborn cries, not her normal cry. I’m trying really hard to make special time for her and tell her how special she is. I know she’ll get over this and I also can tell she really loves her baby sister and loves being a big sister. Moments like the one below are really special.

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Maybe the Difference is Me.

I keep saying that it’s going so much better this time around than last time around.  I think S is a different baby than M, there are many circumstances that are different, and I am just different too.  I think the first time around maybe you don’t really know who you are.  Or you think you do, but who you are is totally transformed when who you are is instantly defined by someone else and who you are to that person.  Immediately following the birth of my first daughter I didn’t feel like me at all. I literally felt grief for the life I had left behind.  Most of what I used to define myself was changed in that instant. The me I knew, the relationship with R that I knew, even the way I physically felt in my own skin, it all had changed so much. And this time around, I know who I am and adding another child to love to that mix doesn’t change who I am, it just further defines me.

I know so much more now than I knew then.  I know that the infant stage doesn’t last forever and that I need to enjoy her curled up sleeping on me, as I now have to beg my two and a half year old for hugs. In mere months (hopefully) we’ll all sleep all night again. I’ll survive going back to work, even thrive in that environment and the challenge it brings to our lives.  I know I’ll cook again – I already am. I think of all the things I did between M’s birth and now.  Once again there will be evenings where I don’t have to rush to bed because I know I’ll be getting up again soon – I’ll enjoy drinking tea and sitting on the couch, I’ll take up hobbies and yoga again.  And I’ll get to do it all with TWO little girls in my life – so exciting!

S update – almost 4 weeks old and weighs 8 pounds, 1 ounce.

2-16-13 Mom and girls

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