Most mornings R is gone before M wakes up.  I’ve been trying to remind myself to send him a photo when he misses seeing her in the morning.  Most days he reminds me!  The other day I sent him this one of her just as I go in to get her.  You can see the tears on her face.  This kid never wakes up cooing, she always wakes up crying.  And just look at that mop in her face.  Someone should get this girl a haircut!